Her Tomorrow is Being Built Today!


Take the Lead™ is a parent partnering program that never leaves your side.  This is where you will address and fortify the training ground that is your daughter’s childhood journey and build the skillsets and mindsets of mental wellness that she needs in these fast paced years to prepare her for young adult life

... ALL through the scope of the one place that is a constant in her childhood, her family. 


This is done to build your daughter's foundation of the worth, esteem and confidence she needs BEFORE she leaves home!


Nobody gives you a manual for parenthood, because there is no one-size-fits all approach. 

That's why we help you develop a specific approach that is custom-made to your daughter and her needs. 

You'll be THE expert in parenting YOUR child.

Remove the power struggles, strengthen your connection, learn to communicate in a way that you actually understand one another and can guide them in the obstacle course of the tween and teen years.


This work is at the vital crossroads 

Your daughter's life and childhood journey can not be truly guided and grown without addressing all 4 of these essential parts of her life.  Every one of these areas speaks into every other in an inseparable web.

But, how can faith, science and "real life"/culture all come together to create positive change for my daughter?

That is what I can't wait to show you as we partner together and unlock the frameworks inside of Take The Lead™  .

Have you heard, "The days are long and the years are short"?

The biggest window of impact and influence you have with your child does not last forever.  

In fact, it is only 6570 days and by the time you come to the tween and teen years, many of those days are in the rearview mirror, which is why it is so important to be even more intentional in this second half of childhood... because everything in her adult life will be based on top of her experiences and what she is learning right now (as scary as that sounds).

That does not mean we seek perfection!  In fact, we face perfection and say "no" and learn how to use failure, hard days, mishaps and misunderstandings as stepping stones to future success!


Take the Lead™ is a unique, one of a kind, experience designed to help you KNOW how to respond to any situation that comes and know how to: 

 Help her grow in mental wellness from internal thought processes to reactions from the outside world, self calming and coping techniques, decision skills and so much more.

→ Discipline in a way that teaches her how to discipline herself; leading her to grow in all areas of wisdom.

→ Communicate with your child in a way that you can actually understand one another and grow trust that can withstand the hard times and truths of the tween and teen years. 

→ Strengthen the bond with your daughter (that doesn't go away as they age).

→ Develop her confidence in a way that she feels comfortable in (and even thrives in) the world around her with a solid understanding of who she is and what she wants.

→ Encourage her to respect herself and the world around her.


These first 18 years will inevitably impact the rest of her life and yours.  There is not an ounce of doubt in that.

With the TAKE THE LEAD™ Program you will be equipped with the ability to customize your parenting style in real-time based on the needs of your daughter and feel confident as a parent as she heads into the world.  

I Want To Know More!

Nellie's program gave me the tools, systems and structure, for myself and my daughters, to help bring some peace into my home and calm down some of the chaos. Nellie is passionate about what she does, her delivery is engaging and the support PDF’s that goes along the program are extremely helpful.


Do you ever think...

• My daughter is just NOT listening to me!

• I don't want to just yell at her all day... including yelling at her for yelling!

• I know she is so much more capable than this, but I don't know what is holding her back.

• How can I help her see how to respect herself and see her impact on others around her?

• How do I help her feel confident in any situation

• I want connection, not just being in the same room.

• How do I break through these walls and stop her from thinking I am always picking a fight?

• I want to help her find the path forward, but I have no idea where to start.

• Am I doing the right thing?

• How can I help her make the right decisions even when I am not there?

• Does she have faith of her own, or is she just going through the motions of mine?

This program is made for you!


 Time will pass by no matter what. 

Why not use it to help them grow into amazing young women that are actually ready for the world?

What if you didn't have to walk on egg shells around attitudes and "teenage angst" anymore?

What if your daughter started to discipline herself instead of you having to play bad cop all of the time when all you want to do is hug her?

What if you could go to bed at night logging the awesome moments instead of the moments you would have changed?

What if you could talk to your daughter in a way she completely understood you and they knew you were really there for her?

What if you didn't have to worry constantly about her mental state because you knew she was confident and backed in grounded self-esteem... and you could take a long awaited deep breath.

What if, at the end of her childhood, you had no regrets and you were just excited for the world to be able to really meet this amazing human you helped raise AND you knew she was ready for it because she had the tools embedded in her already?

How would you Feel?


I have learned so much from Nellie.  My family is better for having worked with her.

-Laura N.

I am a wife, mom to FOUR growing teen daughters, Christian, speaker, writer and Family Life & Leadership Coach!  

And you know what?  I LOVE being a mom (even through the super hard and sticky stuff because there will always be that) and, bonus, they still like me too... most of the time! 

It isn't easy, in fact, some days I want to just beat something, cry or hide.  Sound familiar? 

BUT, it is worth it to see the breakthroughs, the smiles, the laughter and the growth into who they are becoming.

We thought childhood was hard when we were kids, right?  Well.. now it is tougher and more confusing than ever.  

Can you imagine what it would have been like to walk into "adulthood" with a strong sense of confidence, deep wisdom and respect for yourself and those around you?  The world is only more mentally and emotionally complicated now.

This work is a Game Changer.

I can't wait to get to know you and pass on this material that will be GOLD in your parenting journey and helping her get up and face the world from the inside out.  It is the best gift you could ever give her. 

Are you curious what this could mean for your daughter?

I'd love to invite you to explore the possibilities using the button below to see if this is perfect fit for you.